Friends

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Friends are so precious, and investing in friendships is something we prioritise - not just for our kids but also for us adults. This morning, V went on a cycle ride to Portishead with D, and a friend with his son of the same age. The boys had a lovely breakfast, looked at boats, and picked blackberries - definitely something to be repeated!





Meanwhile I was getting emergency dental treatment. Let's not elaborate on that. N spent time with her grandparents.

In the afternoon we celebrated our pastor's 50th together with his family and friends, lots of fun and socialising and - yes, with my tooth sorted, FOOD!

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