Our Christmas: Towards celebrating the Giver over the gifts
Christmas is a big deal. Especially for kids, who will take what they understand as "normal" or "traditional" from their childhood memories! As a couple, Mr and I are from different cultural backgrounds so our family traditions around Christmas are different - hence, from the time my big girl was born, it was clear that we were going to make our own family traditions: traditions with intentions. Our most important intention was and is to instill in the kids an understanding of why we celebrate this holiday (it's Jesus' birthday!), but we also want to give the children that magical joy and pass on (only) those of our cultural traditions which support the main aim. So, here are a few of our family ways at Christmas, and, importantly, advent - that month of preparation for the big day! Advent: the month of December Advent as defined by the church is the month starting four Sundays before the 25th of December. So it can start in November. At the start of a