Will Dig Life

As it's Boxing Day, it feels like a post to finish the Advent times is in order - and of course we celebrated Christmas Day already, although the actual season of Christmas has only just begun. Like the previous fortnight, these days flew by! We continued to journey with Bartholomew every evening (that's an Advent book by Arnold Ytreeide, part of a series that we greatly enjoy); had our daily activities in the Advent Calendar; and took part in all sorts of Christmassy activities. Some pictures... Singing with D(9) at the Parish Christmas dinner N(11) and the rest of the Junior Choir at Mass N loves the Junior Choir Circus Skills Time to dress the tree! Christmassy... PRESENTS! D didn't even make it all the way upstairs... got stuck in his Kindle This year for the first time we stayed up for Midnight Mass. Both kids struggled while there - D was actually serving, being in charge of the Bishop's Mitre as well as, at times, his staff; and we saw him nodding off with his he...

I have written before about my own  family history  but I had this epiphany the other day - it's not just my family, it's my in-laws too.  There are no happy marriages. Not one. Misery comes in many shapes and sizes, they are not all the same, but what all the marriages I know of in this family have in common is that not one of them was happy. My parents on their wedding day, August 1980. I was born in October 1980. Looking through, here's a brief summary of the marriages that led up to our family... My parents My father was married before my mother, his wife left him. I never met her. His version of events was (of course) that he was the completely innocent victim of a wicked woman, but I think she got out while she could - and good for her. My mother had known my father from their late teens, had seen his marriage end, and in the words of an old family friend, 'took pity on him'. He was drinking heavily, got her pregnant, and she refused to abort me; at that time,...

We're halfway through Advent. What a season - we are so busy, it's hard to catch a breath! Advent of course is meant to be a slow, meditative, heart-searching season... and to be honest, that's not really what it looks like in this house.  A few things we have done and are doing to mark the season... We listen daily to the Hallow kids' drama about advent, which is very good - over breakfast Our bedtime story is one of Ytreeide's stories, this year Bartholomew. Those are perfect for the kids' age. Candles everywhere in the house, including the Advent wreath that’s on during meals at the table The advent calendar of activities - from writing Christmas cards to taking chocolate to those who look after us such as police / fire / doctors etc. - continues as it does each year Chocolate advent calendars are a must of course, plus 25 jigsaw pieces each day to put together a Christmassy 500-piece puzzle by Christmas  We're not watching TV during the week, and that do...